Mick and Lynda's Place - Letter to the HOH - JustWhatWeDo
Mick and Lynda's Place - Letter to the HOH In a DD relationship, spanking is used to stabilize the woman during these hormonal storms. This is my first blog ever regarding my DD relationship, but I wanted to create a blog for all the Subs & HOH out there! I wanted to first ramble on. Domestic Discipline (DD) is a male led (or female led) relationship where the Head of Household is in charge of the Taken in Hand partner.
Open Forum -- Your Traditional Relationship - Confessions of a Traditional Wife
Most modern women are unhappy. They are unhappy because they are not filling their innate biological role to be lead, nurture and care.
Most modern men are unhappy. How better to live our lives than filling our innate, God-given roles? Or would you simply take things as they come, giving the matter over to hope and chance that things will turn out to your advantage? You should be thinking with exactly the same mindset when you enter into a relationship with a women. Agree the rules at the outset and both your expectations will be clear. They produce his testosterone, which is the very life blood from which he draws his strength, willpower and authority.
Firstly, she is privileged to be in a relationship with you and extremely lucky that you see fit to honor her by allowing her to have your member in her mouth. It is an emotional act.
She is momentarily dropping all social pretense and outside influences and entering into a moment where only her and you exist. The act of taking you in her mouth epitomizes the relationship between you as a man and her as a women. It reminds her of her place. Regularly enforce this and you will regularly remind her of her role in the relationship. A women can become incredibly happy when regularly sucking cock and can be trained to enjoy it more than she ever thought possible.
Think of the intimacy you establish when you pull her close for a goodbye kiss on the lips, fully engaged when you are both close and you look into each others eyes. Where to begin building Domestic Discipline Relationship Rules. A common discussion found throughout the DD community is about Rules. How to build DD Relationship Rules. Where to begin and how to continue. Later on, how to keep everything organized and working as a tool in the relationship dynamic instead of becoming a micromanaging mess where the TiH or HoH feel hemmed in instead of free in their choice to live a DD style relationship.
Domestic Discipline Rules are very individualized by each couple. There are lists out there that work for one couple but will cause frustration, break down communication and consistency for another couple.
It is never a good idea to take a list of rules that another couple uses and try to force it into your own. First, she needs you very much. She picked you for her mate because you have strength that she especially needs.
Second, she trusts you. What more does a man need to launch him into action? These are the things that touch the core of our souls and inspire us to be and do whatever it takes to fulfill our responsibility. Are you man enough?
3 Rules For The Best Relationship Of Your Life
Take the initiative and recognize what the needs of the marriage are. Show some confidence in directing how you and she will live with each other. What are you going to do? In fact, many men have abdicated their role as leaders and have taken on a passive, even disinterested position, waiting for the woman to tell them what to do for the relationship.
She needs you to demonstrate that you are in charge. For some, a spanking firmly establishes both your roles. In fact, they really hate it. They want a lover and a leader. Of course, it can become a habit to nag. Perhaps they were raised with parents where the woman had to nag.